Friday, 28 May 2021

Reunion with Life !!

After watching friends reunion, all I can think about was friends who has been in my life and how they have helped me to be a person who I am today. 
When I look back at my life, the first and foremost thought which strikes my mind , on hearing word 'friend' is my second standard group of friends whom my friend krishna named as "mini world". 
We were five girls part of this group which included neha, nancy, esha, krishna and me. I still remember the reccess break of 15 minutes which made our day, we used to eat, talk, play and laugh. We used to find solace in those 15 minutes and I was so satisfied in my small bubble. 
Then as we moved to different grades we met more people made more friends, grades were then replaced with different streams which was followed by graduation, masters degrees etc. Friends kept adding to the list, with each of them,we made new, intresting and unforgettable memories which are close to the heart and still make us laugh. 
On entering the corporate world as well we come across people who eventually become our friends knowingly unknowingly. On leaving an organization we hardly are in touch with them. 

As the different from phases of life occurs we meet and greet different poeple our circles change our prospective changes. We leave people behind some amazing ones while some odd ones, but the point is we don't have the luxury to watch the repeat telecast of our past, nor we have great sponsors who will sponsor for our reunion one like -Friends where we re-live the old part of our life just once more!! 
So live in every moment meet and greet people with honesty, kindness and love. As you never know if you are meeting them for the first time or the last. 🥰

Wednesday, 13 January 2021

Just Start

At times you cannot wait for tommorow to come 
To accomplish you dream/wish which you have been throwing off your mind 
Always finding thousand reasons not to initiate 
Even a thought of it is preserved in the deepest and darkest corner of your mind
Which is last priority for you 
But which feeds your soul

It's time to fulfill that wish, that desire, that dream
Start today
Start right now 
Enough of procastination 
Enough of good old reasons and excuses 

Stand for yourself 
Your dream 
Just start. 

@purerealities

Thursday, 17 December 2020

Cozy Corner

What do I really want? 

A corner of the house which belongs to me
Where there is brightness and source of air 
Where I can sit and see rain drops falling on the transparent white glass 
Where I can have my cozy chair 
Where I can straighten my legs and wrap a silky blanket 
Where I can sip hot green tea and indulge myself in a silly series or a book 
Where I can listen to my favourite music and slip in the dream world in bright day light 
Where I can be myself 
 
Where I can be at peace 🕊️ 

@purerealities@blogspot.com

Wednesday, 16 December 2020

Ponder

Ponder 
Ponder upon the things upsets you
Ponder upon the people that pleases you
Ponder upon the situations which makes you venerable 
Ponder upon the set backs 
Ponder upon the reasons of your success 
Ponder to know yourself better and deeper
Ponder to understand your soul 
 

And strategize to avoid or take advantage of the same. 

Thursday, 20 August 2020

believe in yourself

Whenever u feel clueless ,
Or the people around you are against you
Or they are from different planet all togather 

Then forget the rest 
And belive the best

Best is no one other than your good old soul
Which has been by your side through thik and thin 
Through the love at first sight till the heartbreak 
Through the rains drops falling on your face till water drops pouring from your eyes 
Through initial baby steps till running away from toxic things and people 
Through the words you spoke unknowingly till the words you choose not to speak. 

Every minute of your life and 
Every beat of your heart 💓
Your soul has always been with you. 

Monday, 20 July 2020

Don't loose yourself in pleasing people

Their opinions
Their comments 
Their behaviour 
Their actions
Their expectations 
 Don't let their hypocrisy let you down
Don't get carried away by their opinion, comment, behaviour, action push you to be who  ur not.

Be proud of yourself
Be who you are
Learn to divert your attention to your own development and hobbies.

Stop pleasing people who doesn't value your opinion
Stop burdening your soul to keep everyone happy and satisfied.

Happiness and peace is responsibility of oneself and not yours. 

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Sunday, 19 July 2020

Go on a date with your self

wear a nice sexy dress which comforts you
Set your hair or just let it fall down
Apply the favourite shade of lip colour
Wear your favourite pair of heels 

Go out of the house 
A cafe or restaurant 
Take look at the menu 
And treat yourself with your favourite dishes and drinks
Meanwhile ask yourself 
Girl,what you want with your life.?
Where your heading and what you want with your life
How u want coming years to be 
What are the things you want to buy yourself 
What are areas you need help
Whom you can reach out to !

Taking sip of your favourite drink note down the possible options or plan 
Also note down the date by which these needs to be accomplished 

Set target for yourself 
Be it change in Career
Weight loss
Finding yourself 

Be it any thing 


Giving priority to yourself if of out importance.
Priortitize yourself. 

-Juggeee

Wednesday, 1 July 2020

Beautiful surprise 💕☺️💕

Just think, 
what if .?
one fine day 
your school friend with whom you have lost contact since 15 years or more 

Calls you...
That feeling of listening to her voice is just magical as if you have again became the small 2nd standard girlS
Talking about the “mini world” created with few of your other fiends 
And you can see those images of golden memories reviving in front of ur eyes
And peeping in each other’s present worlds
And realising how far we have come 
How many important phases of our life we have missed

Uff the talks never ends and the treasures of all these years are yet to be shared with each other....
 
And it made me realised one important thing of life 
Never ever stop making friends and meeting people every single day

Because you never know when you are 60/70/80 years old and the friend you made today might call you and make u release the importance of present and how beautiful these current days are.

-Juggieeeee

Are we really independent women.?

In our Indian society, these days it is claimed that female are independent and equivalent to men
But my question is really simple 
Are we really independent?

Even for one day can a married girl skip to cook at least one meal of the day?
Can she have an unplanned trip with her friends for one whole day ?
Can she be not judged for not attending any function and rather choose to be at home doing nothing without giving any fake excuses to her in-laws?
Can she walk out of door when guests arrive?
Can she tell her husband to stay in a separate house from his parents?
Can she not accept someone s parents as her own post marriage?
Can she call her in-laws as uncle aunty rather than “mom dad” because the fact remaining the same they are not her parents.


Independence not only means to be free of responsibilities but it is to treat an human being independent of his/her her gender. 

I agree even men would have such list of things that don’t want to tied into
But my motive is to bring light to the facts that are being ignored 
Still there are many grey areas where women are still tied up by the old laws of Indian society

Still the revolution of making an independent is not yet achieved completely 

Still the Indian men should be brought up in such manner that he is tough cooking and cleaning as his basic habits and still the society need to learn that born with a uterus doesn’t mean they are by default made to cook and clean and take care of house.

Sunday, 28 June 2020

Taking baby steps towards our dreams

Many a times we set some expectations from our own self
And when they are not fulfilled we tend to feel sad, depressed and unmotivated.

Rather than focusing on what went wrong and why we are not able to fullfil our wishes 
We should aim at taking productive steps towards our goal 
Plan the initial steps and note it down on pen and paper 
Mark a tick against it once it is done
And repeat this activity till we complete our aim.

Generally we give priority our work or household chores
From today let’s aim at fulfilling our own dreams
By giving priority to our own self.
Let’s be selfish 
Once for our own good
To have peace within  and with ourself
Let’s live once for ourself.

-Juggieee

Friday, 13 March 2020

Challenging myself with one story a day for a 30 days starting from today.

Hello all,

 Let me tell you something about myself first.
I am a girl who has really big dreams and ambitions but everything without a pinch of luck
Thus end up working hard , ever complaining, never satisfied in life

My current problems are I never do what is in my mind,
I want to loose weight but never take productive steps for the same,
I hate my job but doesn’t have guts to leave it with the fear of being at home forever

Thus bored with my existing pattern of complaining
Today I am taking a step forward and challenging myself .

From today I.e 13 March 2020 till 13 April 2020

I will write at least one blog a day and take one step forward to fulfilling my dreams.

Comments are welcome and criticism too.

But do keep in mind I am me and in completely I love with myself.
Taking a step forward to improve myself from yesterday.
                           -Juggieee

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