Don't loose yourself in pleasing people

Their opinions

Their comments 

Their behaviour 

Their actions

Their expectations 

 Don't let their hypocrisy let you down

Don't get carried away by their opinion, comment, behaviour, action push you to be who  ur not.

Be proud of yourself

Be who you are

Learn to divert your attention to your own development and hobbies.

Stop pleasing people who doesn't value your opinion

Stop burdening your soul to keep everyone happy and satisfied.

Happiness and peace is responsibility of oneself and not yours. 

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Go on a date with your self

wear a nice sexy dress which comforts you

Set your hair or just let it fall down

Apply the favourite shade of lip colour

Wear your favourite pair of heels 

Go out of the house 

A cafe or restaurant 

Take look at the menu 

And treat yourself with your favourite dishes and drinks

Meanwhile ask yourself 

Girl,what you want with your life.?

Where your heading and what you want with your life

How u want coming years to be 

What are the things you want to buy yourself 

What are areas you need help

Whom you can reach out to !

Taking sip of your favourite drink note down the possible options or plan 

Also note down the date by which these needs to be accomplished 

Set target for yourself 

Be it change in Career

Weight loss

Finding yourself 

Be it any thing 

Giving priority to yourself if of out importance.

Priortitize yourself. 

-Juggeee

Beautiful surprise 💕☺️💕

Just think, 

what if .?

one fine day 

your school friend with whom you have lost contact since 15 years or more 

Calls you...

That feeling of listening to her voice is just magical as if you have again became the small 2nd standard girlS

Talking about the “mini world” created with few of your other fiends 

And you can see those images of golden memories reviving in front of ur eyes

And peeping in each other’s present worlds

And realising how far we have come 

How many important phases of our life we have missed

Uff the talks never ends and the treasures of all these years are yet to be shared with each other....

 

And it made me realised one important thing of life 

Never ever stop making friends and meeting people every single day

Because you never know when you are 60/70/80 years old and the friend you made today might call you and make u release the importance of present and how beautiful these current days are.

-Juggieeeee

Are we really independent women.?

In our Indian society, these days it is claimed that female are independent and equivalent to men

But my question is really simple 

Are we really independent?

Even for one day can a married girl skip to cook at least one meal of the day?

Can she have an unplanned trip with her friends for one whole day ?

Can she be not judged for not attending any function and rather choose to be at home doing nothing without giving any fake excuses to her in-laws?

Can she walk out of door when guests arrive?

Can she tell her husband to stay in a separate house from his parents?

Can she not accept someone s parents as her own post marriage?

Can she call her in-laws as uncle aunty rather than “mom dad” because the fact remaining the same they are not her parents.

Independence not only means to be free of responsibilities but it is to treat an human being independent of his/her her gender. 

I agree even men would have such list of things that don’t want to tied into

But my motive is to bring light to the facts that are being ignored 

Still there are many grey areas where women are still tied up by the old laws of Indian society

Still the revolution of making an independent is not yet achieved completely 

Still the Indian men should be brought up in such manner that he is tough cooking and cleaning as his basic habits and still the society need to learn that born with a uterus doesn’t mean they are by default made to cook and clean and take care of house.